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This may be a tough one for some of you...
Particularly if you're in a relationship whether it's romantic, friendly or professional where you feel someone is taking advantage of you or you're looking to him/her to give you a sense of peace or wholeness or security.

Most of us think of relationships as 50/50 propositions.
But Gay Hendricks says otherwise in his book The Big Leap.
You are 💯% responsible and they are 💯% responsible.

You might ask..."How the 'f' does that work because that adds up to 200%?" Well, that's because it's not about them.

It's about you.

You knowing that you have all you need within you already. That no person can "make" you feel whole or in some cases inadequate or secure.

It's knowing that you are perfect in your imperfection and are 100% okay with that.

That doesn't mean you don't take responsibility for your words or actions. It means that you don't NEED another person to say or do anything to create a feeling of peace within you.
Because you always have it. It's always there.
You simply need to access it.

And you access it by getting radically honest with yourself and then radically accepting yourself.

From this place you access that peaceful place withing and can take action that's in alignment with who you truly are and what you truly desire for yourself.

Would love to hear about a time in your life when you were radically honest and what you learned.
Remember we learn from one another. 

Week 5 INTERMISSION™ Journal bundle is hot of the presses with a focus on
#Communication... How we both express ourselves and how we listen.

It's a biggie and one that I hope you check out.

Having an awareness around how we may be unable to express ourselves clearly or how we may not feel safe enough to do so creates an opportunity for growth and change that can only benefit us and those around us.

As a fun way to start the week, I chose a card for the week from @colettebaron_reid Wisdom of the Oracle deck (my favorite!). The card for the week:
Tick Tock

According to the guidebook,
Essential Meanings: Timelessness; Divine Timing; immeasurable time

My interpretation flows with my video message from yesterday... Foster patience as it all unfolds in Divine timing. That all is perfect in the moment whether we like the moment or not.
What is truly ours will not go past us.
There is so much happening beyond what we see... so have some peace in the knowledge that when the time is right all will unfold beautifully.

We learn from one another 💕
Let me know how your week unfolds! Can't wait to hear all about the beauty!